CBT – Don’t let the name put you off. It’s overly dramatic: it’s cock and ball play that can lead to cock and ball torture. Mistress is in control, your balls are mine.
Those bank weights to the far left of the picture were bought on what used to be the kinkiest road in London – Holloway Road. Whilst I was pondering whether to buy or not, I got a warning off a young lady who had ventured into the shop telling me not to buy “as second hand, carries bad energy”. Of course that made up my mind.
I have taken a photo of items that you could expect to be used on you. These items are all commonly used. Even on Novices. Usually not just one piece, but a mix of them.
Often visitors to my Manchester Dungeon are surprised at how much they are able to withstand (and even more so that they enjoy it) but remember that CBT is an activity that we build up in increments.
The thing about pain thresholds is that they can vary from session to session and nobody knows how their body will translate the activities on any given day until we begin. This applies to both novices and experienced players. If we discover that your threshold is good then you can expect to whizz up the ranks staying within your comfort zone or breaking through it.
If you are curious but without experience the aim is to get you to experience *pleasurable pain* and to achieve that we need to get you to metaphorically dance on that fine line that separates pain and pleasure…
Common excuses: ‘But, I’m not into pain and I cannot be marked…”
When we talk about pain in the context of BDSM we are not talking about bog standard painful experiences. BDSM pain is different. It is meant to be either physically or mentally arousing or both. Some want to feel stimulated, whereas others like a challenge. They love Me to show them afterwards what I used on them.
It is also subjective – Person A describes relentless edging as *torturous* whereas Person B thinks that’s nothing compared to the pinwheel circling and digging into the head. Then we have Person C who desires heavy impact play.
What can be almost guaranteed is that no marks are left unless you opt for heavy impact play. Yes – what you deem to be the weakest part of your body can withstand quite a lot and leave no trace.
What does this entail?
There are so many pieces of kit since CBT went mainstream. I buy a lot of my kit from this site:- https://www.uberkinky.com/cock-ball.html It’s worth a read as they’ve categorised tools into experiences and have a few Beginners Guides. But remember a lot can be done without kit and to varying degrees – the hands, fingernails, the knee, the foot, stilleto heels all feature heavily in sessions.
Bondage and CBT
The urge to protect yourself is instinctive. This is why I must first immobilise you. You may find yourself sitting comfortably strapped to my Interrogation Chair; cocooned in my Inflatable Rubber Bondage Sack; vacuum packed in a Vac Suit; mummified to my Totem Pole or balancing on my Spanking Horse. But wherever you end up those wrists and thighs are going to be cuffed and separated. Expect to find yourself in a helpless position where you have little room for anything other than the odd twitch.
CBT Activities:-
The most basic play can be achieved with hands and finger nails. A hand gripping the flesh above the balls and pulling down whilst gradually tightening its hold is extremely effective at getting your undivided attention. To then have pointy nails stroking and digging in will have you on that very fine line I talked about earlier. If at this point you relax into your punishment – and by that I mean surrender to your fate then this is a gateway for not naturally submissive individuals to experience what you may have heard described as ‘subspace’.
These are lists that I’ve generated off the top of my head of things I do on the regular.
A) Novice – wont leave any marks
- Tightly separating the balls with thin rope
- The Pinwheel
- Milking Machines – overstimulation/ ruined O/ post orgasm torture
- Parachute /Slings plus light weights
- Pegs
- Tapping
- Cock pumping
- Harnesses with blunt pins or cock straps
- Sounding
- Light flogging
- Pinching
- Humbler
- Stretching flesh with hands
- Electrics
- Sheaths
- Chastity device
- Gates of Hell
B) Intermediate – will leave little or no marks:
- Clamps
- Needles through flesh
- Scratching
- Rubber bands
- Vampire glove
- Potions: deep heat/freeze, fiery jack
- Waxing
- Violet Wand
- Multiple Electrical Attachments
- Crushing
- Wax Play
- Trampling in stilletos
- Whipping pegs off the ball sack
C) Experienced – expect to have some marks:
Crown of thorns. For those with a strong constitution.
Ball busting
Chilli Peppers
Harsh Whipping
Caning
How do you prepare for CBT?
Always be scrupulously clean down there. Every single millimetre of flesh must be squeaky clean. I have a punishment for the unclean that is so stomach churning that you’re guaranteed only to make that mistake once.
It is better to have no hair down there or to cut the hair short. If you remove all the hair do this 24hrs before you see Me. Wiry hairs have a habit of getting unintentionally caught in things. It is annoying. When this happens any pain you suffer is the sort of pain described as *unpleasurable pain* and your fault.
Post Orgasm Torture
There is one activity that even lightly is pretty much guaranteed to be torturous for all and that is Post Orgasm Torture. Even though I do not like to admit it, I believe a Mistress loses a little of her power upon your orgasm, but quickly takes it back when POT takes place and what does that involve? Can be the slightest of touches as you know!
With worthy visitors to my Manchester fetish dungeon, I do sessions that are exclusively CBT but mostly it’s part of a session. However, I am someone that can comfortably do a solo activity for hours on end and not tire of it.
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